Feeling very sober at the moment. Not just because I’m on the wagon (don’t ask) but because there’s a weird feeling in the air at the moment. Whenever I’m feeling a little ungrounded I reach out to the people I love most in the world, and this time I had a chat to Mr L in Manchester. He’s one of my oldest (quite literally – ha ha – sorry Mr L) friends and always cheers me up. But this time he was the one feeling glum – a friend of his had just died of a heart attack. Yikes.
Then there was news of a girl who killed herself here in
. Let’s be clear – I don’t know her/never met her, but it did start me thinking about my lovely uncle, who did the same thing when I was a small child. I have one fabulous photo of us together – I’m all blonde tumbling ringlets and bridesmaid dress, he’s sporting a debonair seventies hairstyle and enormous tache. We’re both laughing and it’s a stunning shot. He can’t have been more than 25 when he died, and my cousins were my age ie 3 or 4, and just born. It’s something that I haven’t thought about for probably 30 years, but it’s been on my mind for a few days. Dubai
I’m all for mulling over lessons that life throws at me, but those who know me well know that dropping into a slump isn’t my usual style at all, so what to do to change this status quo?
In the words of Mr L: “Don’t be glum - I have had a rude awakening. Burying (or actually cremating) one of your friends is a sobering experience and it makes you stop, take stock and look at what's going on. I am going to make each day count.” Sage advice.
So this week I shall be mostly: booking flights for the family to visit at Christmas, sorting a November break to Singapore and Bali, and hitting up my international playboy friend Rich in Hong Kong about putting me up in December. Which all sounds much more like me. You have been warned…..